It is hard to accept things sometimes.  Do you think it was easy for me to leave the monastery?  Everyone has their own, personal story.  Change is not always fun.  But, because we choose to face them, they are filled with hope.
Trust is essential, as well as doing things to help oneself.  Set goals and keep God in decisions.  Let Him speak to you. Even if you don't know what He would say, let Him look down from the cross and love you- let Him love you to death.
It's a lot about listening, but it is also about deciding.  The rough times will pass.  The sun will rise again.
Again I repeat: The sun will rise again.